Asandile

Vumba lempongo♥️

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

I have everything, absolutely EVERYTHING I waited on God for. The rest will just be a bonus

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

@Nedbank my friend. UPay Shap we R11? Hay njani ayihambi kanjalo kaloku. Think about it. Sincede

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

During our last walk I was cat-called and sexualized. OK the world is a bad place but now I don't want to leave the house, except in a maxi-dress. Now I must WOMAN-UP and wear the same tights to get back my power and I want to scratch and fight the whole gender.

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

During our last jog I was cat-called and sexualized. OK the world is a bad place but now I don't want to leave the house except in a maxi-dress now I must woman up and wear the same tights to get back my power and I want to fight the whole gender.

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

Period.

[martha @mxmsworld]

I hate being corrected on family tree terms. We don’t go by what the coloniser says round here. I don’t know or care for what a 2nd cousin is? My cousins children are my nieces/nephews.
My mum’s sisters get called, ‘mum’ and my grandparents siblings are also my grandparents.

[abby ¨̮ @Abbbn0rmal]

My friend just started dating this guy that spoils the absolute hell out of her and I genuinely didn’t even know guys actually did that the way he does. It’s been like 3 months and he just paid off her car and for her birthday took her to Rome lmfao iconic !!

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

🤣my 4 year old niece gets so confused when we're loud and hyper like, "Aren't y'all old people, what happened to you"... haibo girly🤸🏻‍♀️

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

Ikhikhizela ihluma esiqwini azange ndayiva kele pha kwizaci namaqhalo haibo😂

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

I dont know how many more times i have to start my contacts over because my moms or sisters or someone's contacts synced to mine yhaaa😫

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

Ay mna shem I don't know how to process with people. You'll have umntu wanting to be there for me, or even apologize immediately, and I'll just be there bewildered. What do I do with you because the processing happens in my head.

[smh @sanelengcobo_]

as a black south african you shouldn't even consider DA

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

Weird is in the eye of the beholder, please.

[Lelo @lelowhatsgood]

mind you, we have to produce our bank statements, a kidney and blood samples to get approval for travel to the US/EU

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

I think one of the mot precious gifts you can have in life is time. Time to process pain (that? pain? Is not optional. It's very inevitable).
I am grateful for having the time to process pain. Man! What a blessing♥️

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

How do I explain to another grown-up that I'm a grown up who can not be asked to leave my house for nothing. Oh. Say just that.

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

@jiggyjiggaa @currentiyke 🤣🤣🤣

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

The deep sadness weaks me.

[Cleopatra 🪷 ✞ @amandaperera]

Your physical appearance changes, your weight changes, your skin changes, your hormones change. You get headaches, your body feels exhausted all the time, you have trouble sleeping, you have stomach or digestive problems, you feel dizzy, you feel deep sadness. Stress is poison

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

@EsethuNkosazana This thought. So beautiful ♥️

[Asandile @Mqulo_]

Almost year later, I'll still take this affirmation❤️🥺

[Ghostgirl. @EsethuNkosazana]

Quitters really love themselves. To be able to recognize that something isn’t meant for you and decide to let it go? To choose yourself, even though it may hurt? That is really beautiful. ❤️