it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
Is this the plan?
1. Kill agriculture
2. Kill the informal economy
3. Kill SMEs
4. Defund education and health
5. Kill the people
6. Share land and loot with foreign corporates.
If you're going to spend money on women, do it of your own volition & MORE IMPORTANTLY, because YOU CAN. Not because there's some inviolable universal law, that says you must pay women for existing. HER taste, past experiences, & expectations are HER responsibility. Not yours.
Don't labor away trying to "afford" a woman, or anyone for that matter. Afford yourself: Your tastes, your experiences, & your aspirations. These are YOUR responsibility. If you work hard for your money, earn it down to the last coin, don't ever let anyone dictate its value to, & for, you.