@jon_d_doe The guy is the problem, neither of the ladies are.
He lacks leadership qualities a man should possess, the ladies both feel it but his gf feels it more, due to closer association.
He should simply work on himself, shikina!
@ManUtd True power blooms when you stop waiting to feel ready and start acting as if your future self is already cheering you on. Move with that confidence, love yourself through the learning, and watch how everything begins to align.