In some places you have to lead, other places you support, and in some places you have to follow. Knowing when and where to play your role will save you from bad thoughts, envy and misplaced hatred.
A lot of you men donโt see yourself as the prize. You donโt know it is a privilege for a girl to have access to you? Itโs a privilege for a girl to know where you live? Itโs a privilege for a girl to get laid by you? Many of you have a car and your own space, you roll with babes who still live with their parents and canโt afford rents not to talk of a car, some of you even chill with girls who canโt afford their own transport, you donโt know itโs a privilege for her to even roll with the big boys?
Many of these babes canโt afford to visit some of the restaurants you take them to, and even when they go to those restaurants alone, they know what they order for, itโs only when they are with you that they want to try new expensive things out. You donโt know itโs a privilege to know you?
You donโt rate yourself at all.
There are women that have a problem with submission, taking care of their man, respecting their man while they let him lead, they see cooking and cleaning as slavery.
And thatโs fine.
Everybody is free to set their own standards.
And there are also women who donโt have a problem with these things, they do it happily, they want it.
When you want to choose, I hope you know who to choose and save yourself a lifetime of unnecessary stress.