I am a bit sceptical about what we call blessings. I believe the ultimate source of blessings is within us. A good motivation and honesty bring self-confidence, which attracts the trust and respect of others. Therefore the real source of blessings is in your own mind.
Did you entertain the thought of 'what if the real dad is dead', and the stand in became the male figure that stood up for real when other male figures became keyboard warriors? A fool is the one who became the judge with no qualifications... don't you think??
A wise man marries a woman & fathers his own kids.
A fool raises another man’s child & thinks he's noble.
You’re not a stepdad, you’re a stand-in. When the real dad shows up, you’ll fade like a ghost. Reality will hit hard & cold.
“There is no Nigerian politician whose child wasn’t born abroad, from local government officials to the President, their children all have foreign passports” — Seun Kuti