@ThrillaRilla369 It did harm because it was abuse. I got hit for looking like my father and shit like that. So while I did a few pops along the way, I never went crazy with or relied on corporal punishments. My girls are amazing adults now, mostly because my husband and I worked as a team.
@luxemiaa No it doesn’t. Your cousin can sit out all of the activities while doing something else with her daughter. Continue to do what you planned and have fun!