My grandmother said, “A woman shouldn't be too independent because men don't like feeling unnecessary.” I asked her, “Why should a woman make herself smaller just to make a man feel bigger?” She said, “Because relationships require compromise.” I said, “Compromise is meeting halfway. Giving up your independence so someone else feels powerful isn't compromise.” My father then said, “But every man wants to feel needed.” I looked at him and said, “Then be the kind of man someone chooses even when she doesn't need you.” Nobody said anything after that. And honestly, I think that's the kind of standard more people should have.
@gaellemedusa Le problème c'est surtout de l'exprimer comme un message aux femmes : « on vous informe qu'on ne trouve pas ça attirant. »
Et ?🤔
Comme si les femmes étaient censées adapter leur vie/corps en fonction de ce que les hommes désirent🤦🏽. Il est là le problème, dans le sous-entendu.
Gays are not interested in making other people gay...but straight people are interested in making gay people straight
So who is forcing their sexuality on others