while i dont mind certain people interacting i dont like sexual comments about myself or my art representing me (unless its explicit art itself), i am not always trying to invite those comments, as it can make me feel mildly uncomfortable....! sorry for the rant!
what’s with abusers and having the magical ability to get people to believe them over their victims. like how do you do all of these things, somehow still make friends AND somehow convince them you were never in the wrong. the amount of lying somebody would have to do for that seems exhausting