I just want to tell you something. Love / support/ anyone you want no one has the right to judge you. People on this platform are kinda crazy, they want to play mature by forcing you to say unacceptable things . Do/say whatever makes you comfortable, but don't cross boundaries.
You feel guilty for telling people when they cross your boundaries but do they feel guilty for not respecting you ? Do you deserve to be treated badly ? Do you think people have the right to tell you not to be mad when they don't respect you ? You deserve respect, consideration