I absolutely do not forget kind gestures. I have a super retentive memory and remain grateful for each kind word or act I’ve received over the years. I don’t take any of it for granted.
If you’re somebody who naturally attracts a lot of attention without trying, you need to be extra careful because there will always be people who see you as a threat and hate you, regardless of how kind or genuine you are.
In fact, the nicer you are, the more they hate you.