@FindomCentral There’s some stereotype that I’ve really only seen in the findom space where you’re meant to be cruel as a dominant bc you don’t actually care abt ur subs & they know that, but I’ve never seen that as an actual necessity of the kink
Coming from a stripper background, I learned very young to be friendly, but never friends, with other dancers. When I started at 20, one of the best managers I ever had gave me that advice, and I carried it with me for almost a decade.
Looking back though, I can admit part of why I didn’t maintain many friendships in that industry was me. I kept my guard up, I didn’t provide much value to those relationships, and I often took more than I gave. Once I retired, very few of those friendships followed me outside the club.
So now when I see posts in this space saying, “No one here is your friend” or “I’m here to make money not friendships” I understand the mentality but I don’t fully agree with it anymore.
Don’t trust everyone immediately, obviously. But there’s so much comfort in building genuine, long-lasting relationships with women who understand your lifestyle, your work and your financial goals. The more successful you become, the more important it is to have people on a similar wavelength.
You get what you put out. If you constantly tear other dommes down, compete with everyone and bring nothing of value to your relationships, of course you won’t make real friends.
Not every millionaire or billionaire is still surrounded by the same people they grew up with. Sometimes you need people who understand the level you’re trying to reach.
Provide value. Be a good friend. Build relationships. Success doesn’t have to be lonely.
Breeding kink fans be like: “yeah I want to breed/be bred, leg locked , forced, fully ovulating, throw out all condoms, shoot multiple loads and do it until our legs collapse just to ensure a successful pregnancy 🥰🥰 but if I actually have a child I’ll KILL MYSELF”
@slave_mex It’s possible I’d suppose, but I think it would also depend on what you count as a sexual aspect. A lot of kink fires ppls sexual neurons but the actions don’t have to be inherently sexual or always even something you’d wanna pursue with an actual sexual action
Are you feeling dizzy little one? Good. I want you delirious for me. If you’re a good boy for Mommy and can follow instructions, I may let you worship at my thighs instead of my feet tonight
@kisslilasthrone What confuses me is guys who will send bait tweets but will actively talk about how bad the scammers are??? But will then also try to scam u lol
@findomrecovery_ On the other side of this, it’s a bit harrowing being here and feeling as though money has bought you access to me in ways I didn’t agree to be accessed. I honestly feel for a lot of genuine subs and doms bc of how many ppl r here to scam, lie, and use people
The feminine urge to rock between seeing men as sweet caring little subs who deserve care and reward and seeing them as useless little pigs who aren’t worth inhaling the same air hits harder today for some reason
Now that I’ve cooled off a bit, I’m reminded of the sweeter things in life, like having a grateful pet worship the softness of my soles while begging for a chance to soil himself for me ☺️ #femdom
It’s so sweet when a sub sends without expecting a single thing in return. Makes me want to pet the little one on the head and tell them how good of a pet they are