Missy Hartlage Smith

DV Survivor/Advocate. “Do not fear death, but rather the unlived life. You don't have to live forever. You just have to live.” -Natalie Babbitt

[Missy Hartlage Smith @MsMissy2020]

@btsadv $20k and counting!

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

Abusers often evade responsibility for their actions, choosing instead to project their faults onto their victims. This manipulation not only deepens the trauma but also perpetuates a cycle of blame & denial. 💜 #BTSADV #BreakTheCycle #Accountability #HealingJourney

[Missy Hartlage Smith @MsMissy2020]

Or none at all..#20kandcounting

[NO MORE @NOMOREorg]

No matter where you are in your healing journey, know that you're not alone. Join a global community of survivors sharing their stories safely and anonymously on the NO MORE Silence: Speak Your Truth platform (link in bio).

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

It's heartbreaking to be forced by the courts into situations that compromise your child's safety. You are not alone in this struggle. Remember, there are resources available to help you advocate for their best interests. #ChildCustody #DomesticAbuse

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

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[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

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[Missy Hartlage Smith @MsMissy2020]

#facts #everyoneknowssomeone

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

Domestic violence doesn't happen in a vacuum. Many women facing abuse are also navigating systems that minimize their voices and protect abusers. Believing survivors challenges that silence. #BreakTheSilence #BTSADV

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

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[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

Silence protects the image.
Truth protects the people.
Break the silence. Support survivors💜

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QB1 Jameis Winston is ready to roll

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

"Don't tell anyone."

"You'll tear the family apart."

"We don't air our dirty laundry."

These phrases protect abusers and isolate victims.

#SpeakUp #BreaktheSilence

[Missy Hartlage Smith @MsMissy2020]

PSA, the love of your life doesn’t have an ex posting about Domestic Violence Awareness month 💜 #every1knowssome1 #BTSADV #stopthepleadeals

[Break The Silence Against Domestic Violence @btsadv]

Recognizing the signs:

1. **Charm** hiding their true nature.
2. **Isolation** - cuts off friends and family.
3. **Blame** - shift responsibility
4. **Escalation** - behavior worsens
5. **Reinforcement** - kindness and cruelty.

#EndAbuse #SupportSurvivors #BreakTheSilence

[Missy Hartlage Smith @MsMissy2020]

100%

[𝗄𝖺𝗄𝗁𝗈𝗓𝖺 @simphiweyinkoc_]

Heard a therapist say, "People who need therapy don't come to us, their victims do," and that took my head off.