PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
Cutting people off feels different now. It’s not anger, it’s grief. Like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
I asked for better... and that's why everything around me is changing. People I thought were solid don't fit my life anymore. Habits I used to love feel pointless. The old conversations don't move me, the old circles don't impress me, and the old distractions can't reach me.
this girl on TikTok said, "take care of yourself so you don't become a hater when you see a woman doing better than you." ... & she was right. a lot of women don't realize the hate they throw at other women is really unhealed envy. you're not mad at her, you're mad because she's doing what you keep saying you'll do but haven't had the discipline, mindset, or courage to start.
I wish høs would start speaking on why they really mad instead of walking around telling everybody else these false narratives & made up stories about me. Nah, btch.. tell ‘em you don���t like me & claim you don’t fck w/ me cause you CANT!!!!!!! That’s the real tea. Hateful & mad for no legit reason is crazy. Go hug a tree 😘
THE NEURODIVERGENT URGE TO OVER EXPLAIN ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING IN HOPES TO AVOID MISUNDERSTANDINGS, BUT THEN GETS ANXIOUS THAT MY OVEREXPLAINING WAS ANNOYING AND CAUSE MORE CONFUSION.
ever since I was a kid I knew I wasn't and still am not anyone's bestfriend. The kid who who was never anybody's favorite. The kid who poured her life into other people but never received the same in return and the kid who made peace with it a long time ago
GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER AND REALIZE THAT YOUR LIFE IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY . IF ANYTHING IS GONNA PROGRESS IN YOUR LIFE, YOU’RE THE ONE WHO HAS TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN, NOBODY ELSE. STOP WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO TRY TO FIX YOU AND MAKE SHIT HAPPEN, THATS YOUR JOB.
When a man lacks empathy, your pain becomes entertainment to him. He hurts you and then watches how you react, not to fix it, but to study you. He doesn't love, argue, or apologize; he calculates what breaks you and uses it against you.
This girl on TikTokk said: Trauma is crazy. Cause what do you mean during survival mode I disassociated so hard i can't remember half of my life and i can only sometimes remember most of my memories if someone else brings them up. I cannot recall more than half my life.