@suchnerve As a fellow depressed CPTSD baddie, if you haven't tried ketamine (IV or nasal spray), I would highly recommend it. And please don't listen to the ECT fear mongering, it is very effective. They will stop the sessions if you don't feel improvement or have too many side effects.
@evclvelrh Hormonal BC (qlaira) and IUD (mirena) combined with daily naproxen and heat patches helps me some, with stronger pain meds necessary during my period. Have you been checked for fibroids, endometriosis, or adenomyosis?
@vincemoenty Jeg fikk aldri hjelp hos gyn for vaginisme. En sexolog på sykehuset henviste meg til bekkenbunnsfysioterapi + dilator (egentrening). Østrogensalve som smøres i slimhinnen kan også hjelpe, det burde ikke forstyrre testosteron behandling
@DominaPetra I highly recommend AlphaWhips. He has adaptive paracord snake whips where you can switch out the attachments for different sensations (dog quirt, double tongued cracker).
JacksWhips on Etsy is great for floggers, dragontails, and signalwhips.
I also second Whips by Axel.
@mamahartx I went once a week for almost 1.5 years. I was advised to not work the day of and the day after therapy, but that isn't always economically feasible.
@MissBNasty For me, endometriosis is the cause.
It isn't necessarily something to worry about though. During that time in your cycle, your body naturally has high levels of prostaglandins that help trigger the cramps that cause your uterus to shed its lining.
@Wolverinetits This exact scenario, down to the gift wrapping, happened to me a couple of years ago. The only difference is that at the time, I unfortunately worked at the hospital I had to attend for my anal misfortune😬
@emobunnypiss If you don't find anything on Lovehoney or Amazon, you may find something from Godemiche or @FunkitToys to your liking. Unsure if they have balls 🤔
CBD lube may help you relax a little and not be in as much pain, it helped me when I struggled with vaginismus a few years ago.
sometimes I’ll laugh when I make a guy cum just to make him feel weird about it because something about a man enjoying himself doesn’t sit right with me idk