I’ve had some dirty ass shit done to me this year, like some shit that done left me in disbelief. Everyday I be wanting to tell my story but God is giving me peace so a lot of stuff is not worth the energy anymore.
I’m in a season where my boundaries are non-negotiable. Every time I ignored my spirit, I paid for it with my peace. I kept giving chances, kept extending grace, kept loving people who only drained me.
Now? I understand that everyone can’t have access to me just because I have a good heart.
I’ve learned the lesson. I’m protecting the growth God gave me. And I’m not repeating the same cycle twice.
I don’t play victim at all.. I’ll tell you straight up why I’m painted as the villain and exactly how someone gained that response. I take full accountability for how I react to disrespect.