A person doesn’t have to scream at you to be abusive. They can abuse you with silence, with avoidance, with lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apology, and lack of effort to understand your love language. Abuse isn't always loud. Sometimes it's quietly disguised as neglect.
I don’t prefer to use this since last November. Also bluesky isn’t a whole substitute. Neither feels like the place to be for what I miss. The community built is on this platform, but everything this place has become is a lot.