The reason why most Neurodivergent's are so kind Is simply because at some point they felt like no one cared about them and they don't want anyone else to feel like that.
we're taught not to burn bridges because we might need people later. but i pray i never have to depend on anyone who has humiliated or hurt me. may God bless me with abundance so i never have to be in that position.
just apologize when you know that you fucked up... all of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be is just weird shit... people love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!