If you don't take your time to date & bond.
And you do it with sincerity, lots of things will surprise you in your spouse when you're married.
And you'll start to question yourself.
"how did I ever marry this type of person?"
This's why you should marry your best enemy.
End.
We need to talk more about the trauma of struggling to make ends meet. Having just enough to live, but not enough if any emergency comes up. This keeps people in survival mode, unable to truly connect with those around them. Unable to feel safe.
Healthy relationships don’t feel like “fairy tales.” They’re built through uncomfortable conversations, emotional vulnerability, and grace for each other’s humanness. Healthy relationships take work and a willingness to step outside of our ego.
I think I owe myself an apology for being in spaces,where I knew l wasn't wanted & appreciated but instead I stayed. I owe myself an apology for forcing broken connections & ships.I owe myself an apology for putting people who never appreciated me before myself, doubting myself
I repeat. Every child in South Africa should end the day having dinner with Mom and Dad. With Mom and Dad. Not with Gogo only. This thing of breeding children out of wedlock, & sending them to Gogos to raise them is disgraceful and harms our society. As I wait for attacks.