Afia

Feminist, Tech Compliance, Music lover

[Jola @Jollz]

Nigeria right now under Tinubu feels like the Pride Lands when Scar was in control (Lion King). Barren, fruitless and sad. And just like Scar, he doesn’t care. King of ruins is still a king. Terrible stuff

[🐝 @beha_hun]

Who would’ve thought that forcing ads every 15 minutes would make young people look for ad-free alternatives?

[Ugonna Okeke @Victorokeke_]

People were using VPNs to support this Twitter ban back in 2021.

[Johnmark Obiefuna @jayhemz]

What I've come to realize is that, if you don't know how to bill rich people, you'll work as a dog for the rest of your life.

[Michael @TheMG3D]

I don’t blame them 😭

[Balogun Telepepe @dagaeus]

This is the same thing Makinde did all over the inner roads in Bodija. And I honestly don’t understand it. Majority of people that use the roads are always on foot so why do we never consider them and make a safe and pleasant commuting for them too?

[Valet Parker @702ValetParker]

So let me get this straight.

A woman in her young twenties, new to Los Angeles, agrees to meet a guy after talking online under the impression he’s roughly her age. Instead, a significantly older man, looking around 35 shows up having already misrepresented himself.

She immediately notices abnormal behavior, he walks into the bar scanning the room instead of engaging with her, hyper aware of his surroundings, acting visibly strange enough that alarm bells start going off.

Then, within minutes, he pivots into telling her he manages influencers and OnlyFans girls, which in practical terms often means acting as a pimp and then he starts aggressively pressuring a young woman he barely knows to start doing sex work, move to Miami with his help, and let him grow her brand.

So from her perspective

Lied about who he was.
Showed up significantly older than expected.
Displayed bizarre hyper vigilant behavior.
Immediately introduced sexualized financial exploitation.
Began attempting to recruit an isolated young woman new to a major city.

And your conclusion is,

“HAHA WOMEN SAY THEY’RE STRONG BUT THEY CRY.”

No, dipshit.

What you just watched was a woman recognizing, in hindsight, that she had likely just encountered a predator.

Women don’t spend their lives learning situational awareness because the world is full of good hearted entrepreneurial alpha males.

They do it because men like this exist.

And after escaping a high adrenaline situation, the nervous system processes the threat afterward. It’s called a delayed stress response. Fairly basic neurobiology, though admittedly concepts above a 7th grade reading level tend to struggle in manosphere circles.

What’s genuinely fascinating is how men who spend every waking hour screaming about protecting women are almost always the first ones mocking women for correctly identifying dangerous men.

Which tells us the quiet part out loud.

You don’t actually hate women being emotional.

You hate women recognizing predatory male behavior before men like that can benefit from it.

But sure, Richard. Tell us more about female irrationality while publicly demonstrating why women have to develop situational awareness in the first place.

Outstanding work.

[Nnamdi 🦅 @_Nsznn]

The cleaner in that store earns more than a lawyer in Nigeria……We don clock this agenda

[۟ @headnavy]

I’m seeing too many comments saying, “he was out of it” and “he didn’t know what he was doing.” Right... so I guess it was just a coincidence that he was being helped by a group of people but only tried to kiss the woman. He obviously made a conscious distinction.

[Aji Bussu Onye Mpiawa azụ 🇨🇮 @AfamDeluxo]

Nothing new. Just being a typical ronu as usual.

[Mob President Christian @Chrisblin]

In China buildings like these are mostly occupied by low and mid income earners, skyscrapers are a way of managing land and cramping people together

In Nigeria you people use it as status symbol, walai you people are not real, high rise building that the elevator can trap you any fvckn time due to power outage or mal maintenance 🤦🏾‍♂️

[only 1 uzama @KaiUzama]

You could not convince 10 year old me these 2 weren’t related.

[Dad @MuyiwaSaka]

Our markets should be paved. I've always believed that.

[Sora 🏳️‍🌈💥 @thejadedangels]

First step to fixing this country is building some proper libraries in every state. Our biggest challenge is the olodo uprising and it’s not getting better if olodos keep rising.

[Sensei . 丑陋 . 🏁⭐ @ugleebeats]

Ojuelegba/Yaba road as at 5:07pm today .

Audio directive .

[Nans @nansbello]

This is why i said we should normalize beating up these people.
This same man cannot travel on the road he is talking about without security personnel or going through Kano to enter Katsina. Or better still, just using flights to go in and out of Katsina when he so wishes.

[brecht apologist @madison_tayt]

it’s really awesome to see replies like “she’s dressed like a whore” and “hmmm i need more context” to a woman being assaulted on camera

[Seth Abramson @SethAbramson]

The scariest thing about this is that there's no way to know whether he's even aware that he spent the last 4 months saying exactly the opposite

[onion person @CantEverDie]

american entitlement is so strong that americans think we should get a reward for starting and losing a war

[Lilyallly❤️🇬🇧 @lilyally98]

They have called married women Squatters.

The people you are submitting and putting your brain off for see you as squatters.