Let's normalize telling people, 'It seems you don't have the capacity to love me in the ways I want and need, so let's not continue this, and leave it at that.
“You gotta teach people how to treat you”….completely understandable but have you ever equally thought “How tf were you planning on treating me” because that’s the real question 🫠
Don’t let people pour fear into your plans that shit WILL work out I’m telling you. And yea u might have a few inconveniences and gotta finagle some shit but it’s ok. People always got some shit to say because they got the answers🫠😒
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?
YOU START LOOKING AT PEOPLE DIFFERENT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HOW THEY REALLY BEEN TREATING YOU. especially when you realize how much you overlooked just to keep peace, avoid arguments, or keep somebody in your life. But that shyt dead do them how they do you 🫵🏾& Never let tf up
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
you can't teach CONSIDERATION. it’s either a person NATURALLY thinks about you and how something will affect your feelings, your comfort, your safety, your peace of mind, and your heart or they DON'T.