the concept of going through a break up with someone you thought would be there forever, feeling your friendships fade away because you had a fallout, having your period AND having no one physically there for you to give you a hug.
People don't like love. They like that glittery, flirty feeling. They don't love love. Love is sacrificial. Love is ferocious. It's not emotive. Our culture doesn't love love. It loves the idea of love. It wants the emotion without paying anything for it.