Choosing a partner isn’t just about the romance, you’re also choosing a confidant, counselor, career advisor, therapist, investor, teacher, travel buddy, roommate, best friend, and business partner.
Choose wisely.
Only fall in love with someone who wants to see you, text you, call you, and prioritize you. Not someone you have to remind that you exist. Love shouldn't feel like chasing. When it's right, their effort is obvious, and you never once have to wonder if you matter to them.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Delete photos. Delete apps. Rearrange some furniture. Give some clothes away. Delete numbers. Make your phone display neater. Organize your seasonings. Organize your clothes. Organize ur life so you can think clearer.
“Just wanted to hear your voice”
“Are you good, just checking in”
“I saw this and decided to get it for you”
“I might be asleep when you see this”
These simple things actually means a lot. ❤️
I prefer a “I am busy right now, but i love you & i will text you as soon as i’m available to talk” rather than going hours with no text back wondering where you’re at.
One thing I've realized is that, you don't need to vent to your friends about everything that you're going through. Sometimes it's okay to just pray about it and move on. Let it be between you and God.