@Fulani_Tutor Environment, they are usually given tabs and watch television which I believe slows speech rather than human interaction. They're usually also enclosed within their houses.
May Allah bless you for your good heart. Islamically you can forfeit any part of your Mahr to your husband, but it seems what you are asking about here is the engagement gift (s) which is usually a list.
As a man, my advice to you is to let him borrow from a third party, I believe this is safer for you and him. No matter the love between you guys, disputes will arise in marriage, and there may be days where you'll be disappointed that in spite of all you've done for him (like what you are asking about) he's done something to hurt you (not necessarily intentional), you may be overcome by emotions and start making reference to this, which may hurt his own ego and escalate the issue beyond the original subject of the dispute.
Furthermore, if you are a Muslim woman, chances are that your husband may spring up the topic of polygyny later on (I don't know your predisposition to this), in the event that you are not positively disposed to polygyny, you may feel betrayed by his actions and this may fatally affect your relationship with him. All of these are just hypothetical instances.
Lastly, I have a firm belief that men should be allowed to fulfill their duties within their own capacity, sometimes, overindulging us may make us overly comfortable. As they say, necessity is the father of invention. I've seen many a man with a hardworking wife who have turned themselves to a parasite on their wives because of the goodness of their wives who have been shouldering/shouldered responsibilities their men should, an unintended consequence of their own noble actions.
@Ma_R_iam25 He's a Jinn completely, check Kahf verse 50 it's clearly stated in the Quran. And even when he refused to bow to Adam he said 'I was created from fire" jinns are created from fire while angels from light. But he was the leader of the angels Allah gave him that.
@pharrelmajid Not as common as you think brother, engage your Muslim brethren and be shocked. Also go through the comments of the quote. Try asking your contacts on status and all that. It's a common mistake a lot of us make.
@Saratubadeggi @iam__Drlex007@Halal_Match He led or was the leader of angels but wasn't an angel. He clearly states it that he is created from fire while angels are created from light. Also the Quran clearly says he's a jinn
In the last 12 to 24 hours, recent headlines report that:
1. Bandits invaded Digare community, Bauchi State.
2. Bandits ambushed travelling passengers in Kogi State, while shooting the driver.
3. Bandits tortured a captured NYSC member.
4. Bandits invaded and abducted many people in Kogi State near Government Technical College.
-Bauchi is a Muslim State, Kogi is partly a Muslim state, and the corper being tortured pleaded in the name of Allah, (For the sake of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W), please help me. Please help my life).
Again, this is the holy month of Ramadan; Now tell the public why bandits will be attacking and torturing people at this time, since a lot of you want to link the insecurity crisis to just Islam, instead of just addressing them terrorists that are affecting us all. Kindly explain.
Imagine you have an uncle. Let's call him Sam.
Uncle Sam owns a beautiful mansion, abundant food and lots of entertainment.
Anyone who can visit is welcome, allowed to work in the mansion, and if they prove loyalty and are of good behaviour, they're given a card that allows them to stay indefinitely.
However, not everyone, especially the most skilled individuals, wants to visit Uncle Sam. They would rather transform their own little houses into mansions. But Uncle Sam needs the best of the best to help him maintain his mansion, and he doesn't have enough skilled occupants to help him do that.
So, he goes around the neighbourhood threatening and sabotaging anyone who dares to build their own mansion.
When their efforts to build their own mansions fail, and they can obviously not visit other people whose mansions have also been sabotaged by Uncle Sam, they have no alternative but to go work in Uncle Sam’s mansion, where they live as second-class occupants, and get a fraction of the fulfilment they would have gotten had Uncle Sam left them alone to build their own mansions.
There’s no Christian genocide in Nigeria.
America could give two shits about Africans and their religion.
It’s about resources and how much money they can make from destroying Nigeria
It’s about Israel’s reach into Africa and if you know about Israel’s involvement in the Biafra War, you wouldn’t buy into this garbage
Lokacin da sayyadi Umar ya musulunta, sai ya tambayi wani yace masa wanene kwakkwaran influencer cikin yan social median Makka wanda ya fi kowa iya saka labari ya yi trending. Aka ce masa ai babu kamar Jamilu dan gidan Ma’amaru Al-jumahiy.
Sai ya je kuwa ya same shi (kamar yanzu a ce ya bi shi inbox) ya ce masa “Ka san na musulunta kuwa?”
Yana jin haka, bai kokarin tabbatar wa ko ya nemi karin bayani ba, sai kawai ya tafi posting. Ya nufi bakin Ka’aba, sabo da nan ne app din da ya fi kowanne yawan jama’a masu taruwa. Shi kuwa sayyadi Umar ya bi shi a baya don ya san zai iya yiwuwa ya hada masa da fake news.
Yana zuwa ya fara basu headline na breaking news, hankalin kowa ya dawo wajen sa. Sai ya ce Umar fa ya kauce (haka suke cewa wanda ya musulunta), shi kuma Umar yana biye da shi yana cewa karya kake musulunta na yi (domin ya kalubalanci name calling).
To daman burin sa kenan, ya yada labarin musuluntar sa yanda zai shiga kowanne gida, maganar dole kenan ta yi trending, kuma labarin zai sanyaya guiwar mushrikai. Don haka, tunda Jamilu ya yi masa wannan aikin, sai ya dora a kai ya yi kalmar shahada da karfi don kowa ya ji.
Nan fa mushrikai suka fara trolling. Suka hayayyako masa, shi ma ya tashi kansu haiqan, suna fada yana fada. In sun kai masa duka shi ma ya kai musu. Wasun su suka dinga tagging din wasu don su kawo musu dauki. Nan da nan fa suka taru sun kai har mutum dari uku a kan sa.
Haka suka dinga fafatawa tun safe har tsakar rana, suna fada yana fada, duk wanda ya kai masa duka shima sai ya kai masa. Suna so suyi masa mob action amma suna shakkar abin da zai iya biyo baya. Har dai ya gaji ya zauna, yace duk abinda kuke jin za ku iya yi ku yi, ni na musulunta!
Ana cikin haka sai wani tsoho ya zo ya ce musu ‘Me ke faruwa ne?’ Suka ce masa ai Umar ne ya kauce. Sai yace musu “To tunda ya zabarwa kansa abin da yake so ku ina ruwan ku? Ai yana da ‘yancin yarda da abinda ya ga dama, don me za ku zama intolerants? Kuna jin za ku taba shi ne dangin sa, Banu Adiy, su sallama muku? Ku kyale shi kawai!”
Nan fa kowa ya bar wajen, suka rabu da shi.
- Muhammad Mahmud
As an adult, your elderly parents should not spend the last stage of their lives worrying about you, clearing up your mess, and trying to look for money to bail you out. There are too many people in their 30s and 40s still being looked after by their parents or parents' siblings. This should be embarrassing, but not in today's age where adolescence has extended by a couple of decades. The rise in cost of living hasn't helped, but the rise in irresponsibility is also a major factor.
Sometimes, we need to let our kids pay the price for their poor decisions. Let them experience failure and pick themselves up. If they blow their allowance on showing off to their peers or trying to impress a girl, don't send them extra. Let them learn how to manage with less and pivot or engage in hard labour themselves to earn their keep. You can advise them but let them take the actions themselves.
Adult children should not be allowed to take their parents for granted. It's a tough one to watch your loved ones endure hardship but it is part of your training them for life.
While coaching them on how to bounce back after a low, maintain a firm stance on the blessings of halal earnings and gradual wealth generation. Nigeria today has far too many haram options that allure those after fast, big money.
It's better for your kids to have normal clients paying for competitive pricing and performance, than those 'contracts' for hundreds of millions with extreme profit margins that are out of their area of expertise, but they can win through partnership with a friend whose uncle can lobby such-and-such Minister or the SGF or whoever.
If we people of faith and moral principles are raising kids who think fast, big accumulation through lack of merit is okay, we are failing in our responsibility and are directly implicated in the increase of irresponsibility.