Mungoma Pips

[Illimitable Man (IM) @SovereignIM]

When a woman loves a man, she fantasises about him kidnapping her.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Whether you do it for your woman or not, is your business. I want to address something.

"It costs nothing to do this"

E clear say you never price flower before. The plate writing is free but you'll need to cough out good money for a good bouquet. My point is, you don't have to downplay the cost of something to promote it.

It takes effort, time and money to do this and that is okay, because it is the whole essence of love.

[Yehgha @yaygha]

In humans, allowing the weaker and retarded lead is called diversity, equality, and inclusion.

Calling the weaker 'weak' and the retarded 'retarded' is called racism and misogyny, and in some countries could get you arrested

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Nobody comes here to talk to themselves. You have a diary and note on your phone for that.

It is okay to not lie to yourself.

[Illimitable Man (IM) @SovereignIM]

A woman helps a man grow like a child helps a woman grow.

A man helps a woman grow like a mentor helps a student grow.

Men and women help each other grow, but not in the same way.

A woman helps a man grow by forcing him to improve from within in order to meet the challenge she represents.

A man helps a woman grow by guiding her understanding of things and enriching her perception of reality.

This, by the way, is why women so often fall in love with their professors, mentors, bosses etc - whilst the inverse is markedly rarer.

Implicit to teaching is dominance, authority, status, leadership - all things women find attractive in men, but men don't really seek in women.

The parent-child relationship is mirrored by the mentor-student relationship and the husband-wife relationship.

These things are not identical, but they share a large number of parallels that map onto each other very well.

If you want a woman to love you, be her teacher.

She will care what you think. She will respect and look up to you. She will trust your opinion, and take it seriously.

Just like she would her father, or her husband.

In the same breath: be careful who you allow to teach her.

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@Eva_Sommie You trying to sound smart but you ain't intellect your dating for survival under disguise of investment if it fails you still see no importance in it, real relationships thrive not on monetary future gains or plans

[Yehgha @yaygha]

1. Read text more than you watch videos

2. Check the meaning of EVERY new word--don't assume its meaning from the context you saw it being used

3. Document your thoughts and refine them until they mirror the picture you have in your head

[Yehgha @yaygha]

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[AvantPrince_ @AvantPrince_]

The modern world has built an elaborate moral framework around mediocrity and called it humility

It has taken the natural human instinct to suppress competition and dressed it in the language of wellness and community and authenticity and it has deployed that language with surgical precision against anyone who dares to believe they are capable of something extraordinary, this is killing the innate beauty and transformational capabilities of many young men as they are constantly shamed by the establishment for their sense of wanting more from the world

The mechanism is elegant and cunning in its cruelty

You are not being held down; you are being invited to hold yourself down and told it is growth

Watch how quickly the energy in a room shifts when someone speaks about themselves with genuine unperformed confidence. Watch the micro expressions. The slight tightening. The eyes that go flat. The comment that arrives dressed as concern but lands like a warning. Just make sure you stay grounded. Just make sure you don't lose yourself. Just make sure you stay humble. Translation. Just make sure you stay small enough that my own smallness does not become visible by contrast

That is the entire transaction. That is all it has ever been

The disdain for confidence is not a virtue it's a collective agreement between people who have made peace with their own limitations to ensure that peace is not disturbed by someone in proximity refusing to make the same agreement

When you refuse the agreement you do not just make them uncomfortable

You make their entire philosophy of self visible to them

You become a mirror they did not ask to look into

That is why the reaction is so disproportionate; its not about you it is about what you represent which is the possibility that the story they have been telling themselves about why they stopped was not the whole truth

Your success does not just threaten their present. It retroactively indicts their past. That is a level of psychological stakes most people are not consciously aware they are playing for but they are playing for it with everything they have

Go with the full aggression of a man who has decided to find his own limits personally rather than accept the limits assigned to him by people who never tested theirs

Go with the understanding that the fire inside you is not arrogance, it is information

It is your nervous system telling you that you were built for a larger life than the one currently on offer and that the discomfort you feel in small rooms with small thinking is not a character flaw but a compass reading

The discomfort is the direction

Own everything about yourself that you have been taught to apologise for. The ambition. The hunger. The refusal to be soothed by comfort that has a ceiling

The part of you that looks at what most people call success and feels genuinely, not performatively, underwhelmed; that part is not broken; its actually the part that the most valuable thing you possess and the entire weight of social conditioning has been deployed specifically against it because a man who fully owns that part of himself becomes very difficult to manage, to employ, to contain, to predict, to profit from he is the TRAILBLAZER, HE IS THE OMEGA

ATTACK

[Yehgha @yaygha]

There is a class of Nigerian men who simp hard in their r/ships and first few years of marriage

But after their wife gives birth, the novelty of fatherhood fades, their wife's body no longer serves tea and their fear of losing her to other men all but dissipates, they become some of the most non chalant men that walk this planet.

This is when they suddently realise they need to be more 'social' just to get away from her😂

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

never heard a woman excuse her female friend’s rudeness because she was on her period.

never heard a woman overlook another woman’s bad attitude because she was pregnant or dealing with postpartum struggles.

never seen a female boss allow an employee to mistreat customers because she was hormonal or in a bad mood.

Yet when it comes to men, we’re often expected to tolerate, absorb, and understand these same behaviors without question.

Women rarely extend that same patience to each other, but they expect men to play the role of emotional punching bags.

This shows that much of it is deliberate. If someone can control their behavior with their friends, their boss, or their customers, then suddenly lose control only with you, it means they choose where to draw the line.

Yet they have the audacity to call a “man child “ emotionally unintelligent” men tolerate so much from women.

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@UG_confesses You pay attention to unrealistic dramatic series that feeds your thinking or mysterious Mr right a esthetics in looks is subjective to same women

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@MoFibz Do you start looking out for your setup at points VAH VAL and POC vwap or it's a random place that you spot your setup and Take, just knowing thoughts before any setup

[Kevin Bass @kevinnbass]

Imagine spending your whole life becoming an academic expert. Then a random guy online tells you that you are wrong about your own field. And he's right. But you can never admit that. Because it would mean admitting that your life was a lie. That is the dilemma of many academics.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Virtue in other people, reminds us of our vices and it is difficult to reward that whose existence highlights our moral deficit.

The worst of us detest good in others and even contrive schemes to corrupt it. The rationale being, the more people we can engender moral corruption in, the less we feel bad about our own turpitude and the better we appear in comparison. In the old days this was called witchcraft.

[Karun Pal @karunpal]

Real books change your very psyche. Not the self-help books. The long, difficult, soul-altering books. The Brothers Karamazov. One Hundred Years of Solitude. The Stranger. The Old Man and the Sea. Crime and Punishment. In Search of Lost Time. Writers who understood loneliness. Meaning. Human suffering. The quiet chaos inside the mind. Writers who sat alone for years and pulled something true out of their inner darkness and put it on a page so that one day you could read it and feel less alone in your own. They change the way you see people. They expand your perception. They upgrade your consciousness. That's what real books do.
They alter you.

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@outabrian2 I think you meaning a taxi

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@Lord_Mutuzo Start advocating for male feotus to be aborted you sound ’like a witch

[Mungoma Pips @MungomaK]

@Luv_Xcuses Cognitively you can deconstruct what you meant

[Kenneth Elder @KenElderReal1]

It's true 👍

It's like the difference between syntax and semantics. Syntax is the proper structure of language whereas semantics is the logic of language.

You may be able to copy Chinese texts word for word (syntax) but if you can't read it ? (semantics).

Math is still a language, just a very precise language. Math provides limits, like a tape measure for us to conceptualize accuracy.

Until you hit Goedel :)