This footage of Michael Jackson getting out of the coroner’s van alive was posted 61 days after his death.
Approximately 24 hours later, a major TV network, RTL, admitted it had faked it.
Many still believe it was real and that RTL was asked to pretend they faked it as a cover.
I remember I used to wanna be an architect . Niggas discouraged me 😭 I shoulda did it. Black families the only families will discourage their children projecting their own insecurities
Working in healthcare, I get to see genuine love. Some men come before & after work. They sit with their wives for hours and talk to them until they fall asleep. They come and get their laundry to wash, etc. All men are not dogs, wait for a man who loves and values you deeply.
@omgsidewalks And the cruel part is the avoidant genuinely doesn't know they're doing it. They think understanding you is the same as being there for you.
Ngl if you're someone who likes depth. You're more prone to attracting avoidants. They'll bring intellect and at first it'll feel like you're compatible. Until you realise you're engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
learning how to tell when advice is really just someone else’s regret in disguise. your divorced friend cautioning you about marriage, your broke uncle’s take on investments, your unhappy parent steering your career.
they are not advising you. they are processing themselves. once you learn to hear the wound behind the words you stop letting lost people give you directions.
i will make it porn addiction, i knew a guy in ohio, an old friend who said porn helped him relax... he smart, disciplined, gym, good physique, business-minded. no red flags.
then i noticed something small but serious, he couldn’t sit with silence, couldn’t stay present in conversations, he couldn’t feel desire unless it was instant and intense... real women bored him, real effort annoyed him, real intimacy felt like work.
he wasn’t addicted to pleasure, he was addicted to escape. porn didn’t ruin his life loudly, it just quietly trained him to avoid discomfort, delay and depth.
it’s quietly training people to be less human, less patient and less capable of real intimacy... that’s why society defends it so hard cos admitting it’s harmful would mean admitting we normalized a coping mechanism that slowly erodes patience, masculinity, intimacy and self-control... without ever looking like a crisis.