My shyness has this exception where if someone is as shy as i am or even more, i suddenly develop another personality that's extremely extroverted just to save the other person.
1. Do I consider this person close enough to ask them for help, if I was the one in need?
2. Would this person come through for me if I was the one in need.
3. As a test of character, has this person proven they are worthy of trust?
If you're not sure of a metric, this would really help you.
If Peter Obi gets the ticket under ADC, I swear I will vote for him. Even if he ends up killing us, let him kill us, it is better than those who hide behind religion while oppressing us.