Por qué Musubi?
En japonés significa “unir, conectar” ❤️.
Ese es nuestro objetivo: crear un espacio donde los fans podamos hablar sin filtro de lo que amamos.
Hola, mundo otaku!
Debido a motivos fuera de nuestras manos @MusubiOficial pasa a ser cuenta secundaria. Esta cuenta antes era personal , fue una decision dificil pero desde hoy se convierte en Musubi: un espacio para hablar de anime, cultura otaku y todo lo que nos une.
On a more personal note:
The most uncomfortable part of healing is not admitting that you were hurt.
It’s admitting that your wounds are now making decisions for you.
We are talking about Alya’s abandonment trauma.
And we should.
She was abandoned.
She was uprooted.
She was betrayed.
She was threatened.
Those things happened.
But healing doesn’t begin when we understand why we run.
Healing begins when we realize that we are still running.
That is the part nobody likes to talk about.
Because there comes a moment when the question is no longer:
“Who hurt me?”
The question becomes:
“What am I doing because of that hurt?”
Trauma explains behavior.
It does not transform it.
Transformation begins when the pattern is interrupted.
When the person who always leaves stays.
When the person who always hides speaks.
When the person who always sacrifices themselves asks for what they need.
When the person who always assumes rejection risks connection.
That is where healing lives.
Not in understanding the wound.
In making a different choice while the wound is still hurting.
That is why Alya’s story feels so tragic to me.
Not because she is wrong.
Not because she is weak.
But because she keeps returning to the same survival strategy.
And survival is not the same thing as healing.
The hardest truth about trauma is also the most liberating one:
What happened to you was not your fault.
But what happens next is your responsibility.
And in the story, I am no seeing none of it. Just more of the same.
#UzakŞehir
Before judging Alya, let's ask ourselves why she left?
Gülizar used emotional destructive decision over some rational decision as a plot device. I thought we will have Alya growing out of her trauma, but obviously it's not the time yet.
So her reaction is not that she simply leaves. And I am not asking we should agree with her choice, but to understand it.
Alya’s confession - "they always tore her away from all the places she tried to hold on to," "she felt like she has returned to the place where she belongs" - is the orphan’s prayer finally answered.
She has lived a life of uprooting: from the mother who disappeared, from the father she never knew, from Caroline's death, from the marriage that failed, from every place that promised safety only to become a site of loss.
And then Cihan. For the first time, she finds a place where she is not extra. Where she is not the one who waits. Where she is whole.
And again, they tear her away.
And the basis of that torn Alya is the exhaustion. Through out the whole season of being on the edge, of scraps instead of peace, of communication fractured by threat and fear...
#CihAl never got the one thing a couple needs to build: time without some fight. They never got an episode where they could just be. And when Alya, already drained, runs into Boran again, he attacks her wound.
He knows exactly which trauma to exploit.
He knows that an Alya who still carries abandonment trauma will never put her love before the possibility of Cihan losing his blood child. She would not want that for the child. She would not want that for Cihan. Because she did everything to stay by her own. She fought to belong.
And exhaustion made her see once again that the one who was extra in everyone else’s happiness was her.
Her mistake was leaving without talking. I agree and I pointed out these things before. The exhaustion she carried added to her fears made her resort to what has always been her defense mechanism: running away, giving up, leaving with the only thing that is truly hers: with her son.
She left because she thought it was the right thing.
She said to Deniz: "I am weak." That is human saturation. She is exhausted. She is traumatized. She is overwhelmed. And now she is so exhausted that she can't think clearly. She can't see that staying and fighting might be the braver choice.
And this is also perfectly human. At least to me.
It is not hard to put yourself in her shoes if you are willing to feel what she has felt. Imagine being dragged from one trauma to another, every single day, for months. Imagine your nervous system never resetting. Imagine your body living in constant fight-or-flight, your heart always braced for the next blow. Imagine telling yourself “I can do this” until you can't anymore. Imagine reaching a point where your exhaustion is so deep that it lives in your bones, where your fear is so old that it lives in your blood, where your only defense mechanism is to run because staying feels like drowning.
That is Alya.
Her choice was not rational but emotionally destructive. Human.
Rational choices are made by people who are rested. Who are not being threatened.
CihAl story is a story of people who are broken trying to heal each other. Alya carries the orphan’s wound. Cihan carries the guilt of his past. And none of them are fully innocent. None of them are fully guilty.
The tragedy is that everyone is wounded, and the wounds keep colliding.
The past doesn't let go that easily. Guilt doesn't disappear that easily. And the armor of belonging is not enough to protect against the necessity of survival.
Now they are both broken. Alya is uprooted again. Cihan is breathing without his oxygen. And the only way forward is not to blame. The only way forward is to heal.
My hope that Gülizar will reach this healing in the next season.
And again, you don't need to agree with me, but I am operating from the served story point-of-view and not what I would like it happened. If you follow me, I was saying she won't leave. It didn't happen. But my understanding didn't left with Alya.
#UzakŞehir #SinemÜnsal #OzanAkbaba
@DreamsInFrames that 2nd trailer tricked us, we were thinking Alya won't leave because she was hesitating at the gate... we put hope on the stupid Gulizar she knows shit about what she's writing, seriously what bullshit reasoning for Alya's leave.
@cloudedbrush the bulgarians could come back and hera, that would be interesting since Boran is dead but the debt isn't, alya's father or brother maybe, the true face of Meryem will show up, she isn't that naive or new hidden enemies, Ecmel will want revenge after he lost his 2 sons.
@RAlonso23037R@DreamsInFrames si exactamente, en la foto de despedida que toma Kaya, Sinem no esta por todo eso, asi que al menos q lo hicieran a proposito (lo dudo) no hay manera que Alya se aparezca en la plaza
@clara_garan miedo me da con lo ''buena'' guionista que tenemos, es muy capaz de cerrarlo todo en la escena de la partida de Alya, ojala que no y nos sorprenda de una vez porque esta temporada telita.
@clara_garan Ojalá Cihan este planeando algo tras bambalinas y esa no sea la boda real.. aunque me preocupa que Nare le diga a Alya ya nadie puede separarlos 😣 eso me dio mala espina es como en plan justo eso sucedera..
Quedan 10 días para acabar el split.
Voy a jugar 12 horas al día al lol y voy a intentar subir a Master en EU.
Apuesto 5000€ a que subo, y si pierdo los repartiré en directo con toda la gente que haga RT a este tweet.
Si eres de LATAM te pago un 20% más.
10 winners. Abro.
The #Frieren Season 2 OST is out today! From peaceful tracks to big exciting ones, I had a lot of fun continuing the musical world of Frieren. Check out “First-Class Mage” for some super epic action, or “The Golden Land” to get ready for season 3! It’s what Himmel would do! ↓↓