Women are literally faced with temptation EVERY single day. They get hollered at by guys at the gas station, grocery stores,doctors office, or PTA meetings, and yet they STILL don't cheat. A man see one biscuit head ass good looking female & think they have to smash๐ญ
Olivia Rodrigo on if sheโs seen HBOโs 'THE IDOL':
"Oh no. I donโt have the desire to. I remember walking out of 'Barbie' and being like, 'Wow, itโs so long since Iโve seen a movie that is female-centred in a way that isnโt sexual or about her pain or her being traumatised.'"
The idea that you have to be 5 steps ahead of your wife for a marriage to work does not really work for me. How exactly is that supposed to work when you're not in control of the universe?
One, it implies there is a competition between us. Two, it implies that the respect you have for me is subject to my financial state in comparison to yours at every point. Thirdly, it implies I have to stifle your growth if it means I remain on top.
Truth is, life is unscripted. A fantastic job opportunity can come. Your career can take a very huge positive spin. An investment can go right. An old kindness can bring new possibilities.
Money is just money. I have no attachment to money or what money can buy. So I am not bothered. I am interested in your growth and will support it to the fullest. But you will not disrespect me because of money - I won't take it. I'm not putting a price on my respect.
You should always be happy to walk away from disrespect. In my life, I have come to know that family is more important than everything - including money and career. Someone that loves you would be supportive of your growth and if you disrespect them because of your career growth or financial increase, you're just a fool.
There is a reason I am particularly about family values. If you can't see the importance of the home we are building together because of a pay check, we have no business together. Instead of stifling your growth, walking away makes more sense to me.
If you have to compete with your wife, I think the relationship has a bad foundation. Telling yourself that you have to be 5 steps ahead is delusion. You dont control fate. If you are not sure of the fate of your relationship if your woman is earning more or your man is earning less, you are with the wrong person. If you're richer than me, good for us. If I am richer, good for us. We are a team, not a rival.
Every blessing or increase should be for the interest of the home and the children you are raising together. Special moments are special because of special people. What is the point of success and financial growth if you can't share them with the people you love?
Date people with family values.
โNo means noโ does NOT only apply to sex. It also applies when your friends say they donโt want to drink anymore, when they say they donโt feel comfortable with affection, when they say they donโt smoke. Respecting peopleโs boundaries doesnโt only mean when it comes to sex
Me listening to the audio message he sent me, for the 100th time cus I love his voice ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐