There is no one busier than someone who’s not interested. And what’s mad is they’ll still tell you things that sound true enough to keep you holding on. It’s never loud disinterest, & it makes you question your instincts. So instead of leaving, you rationalise their absence.
This is me everytime someone asks me what I’m doing midday midweek. Like what else would I be doing ? Heck what the hell are you doing mid fucking week ? 😒
I hate that dating as a single mom means meeting men who have this preconceived idea that you need to be saved, that you need them to survive . The reality is we probably the most independent type of women you’ll ever meet.
Before calling me past 10pm ask yourself
Are we in a relationship? Are we best friends? Am I in love with you? Are you my employer? Is someone dying?
If not, please call me during the day like a normal person