My thing is the girls could’ve recoupled and still went back to their old connections at the next recoupling. The whole point of bringing someone back is so you have more time to explore, it’s not a marriage contract
If I told you that you had to be somewhere at 7am to collect a cheque for a £1 million and if you were even 1 minute late you wouldn’t get it, you’d be there, in fact you’d probably get there early. You just don’t respect other people’s time enough which is a character flaw.