Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser.
Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.
I just wanna be a better person, upgrade my vocabulary, my lifestyle, how I handle people & situations. Just have complete self control ion want no negativity around me.
Ngl you will think you're a good person until you fall in love and enter a relationship. Then you're stripped bare. Love confronts all of your insecurities, vices, weaknesses and toxic traits. Shows you you're not that patient or kind. Not as forgiving or tolerant as you thought.
โOh my God, how much stuff have I not allowed myself to enjoy because I was in my own head โ feeling like I was unworthy?'
This just hit me like a ton of bricks. Fuck.