I am currently so hurt. I have been crying at my desk for like a hour over this shit. All because my grandmother wants to control my dad and have him depend on her so she can steal from him.
My dad has financially taken care of both sets for children since they came to live with my grandmother. So my grandmother has actively taken from my dad my whole life and im not happy that it's still happening.
I understand my grandma but I don't at the same time. She wants to continue to to take from my dad and his children and give to my uncle and his children. Seriously it's dark vs light pertaining to that side of the family. She raised my uncle's kids because her didn't want to.
So my grandmother has been actively taking his ssi check and spending and not showing record of when his money is going. He keeps asking but she refuses to show where the money goes. She telling him I yelled at her about my car and the fact she wants to take it . I texted her no
I probably should have said this about 2 years ago my father had 3 major strokes that has left his right side compromised and wheel chair bound. His mother is his care giver because he didn't want to be a burd . He could never be one to me. I am the ultimate daddy's girl
My dad has taken care of his mother , father and little brother his whole life. My father still at 56 is taking care of them. But this man has 5 kids. Granted 4 of the kids are in their 30's but the last one is 12 years old.
My father's mother has been taking money from him since he started working at the age of 12. He grew up being the man of the house even though this dad was around. My dad gave up on all he's dreams to take care of his family.
I bought a new car and my old car is in my dad's mane. He wants to take it back but I told him put a new engine in it and new tires that's over 5,000 and I need my money back if you're going to take my car back. Hell he has 2 cars.
I gave the family a place to stay and they need go because they got too comfortable with not working . I pay all the bills just to give them time to get back on their feet but they aren't trying hard enough. I will send them jobs fairs and they won't go.
So, my life is very crazy now. My father is mad at me because I wouldn't ask his baby mama for a dna test for my little sister. He's also mad because I told him that I can't control other adults and the person and her family leaving with me has to be out on the 1st .
For everyone wondering how it all started.
About an hour before this she was screaming at kids telling them to get off her lawn & calling them little bi*ches. We told our children to stay by us and not go towards her house at all.
She came over screaming & yelling at us because "she wasn't talking to our kids". We had no way of knowing that.
She called the cops to have us trespassed. She got aggressive with them & they told her if they come back she was going to jail. She literally told them they would be back. An hour later and this happens.....We were all just chillin'. Not responding to her flipping us off, screaming dumb shit over - just chillin!
She came over acting crazy. The girl on top of her was already on the phone calling the police as soon as she seen her walking over because there was 15+ damn kids there!Some ours, some neighborhood kids.
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