βYou are using an iPhone 15 Pro Max, wearing human hair worth over β¦200,000, and you came to someoneβs office asking for β¦100,000 to pay your tuition fee.β
he advised you to sell the expensive phone, buy a more affordable one for around β¦200,000ββ¦300,000, use β¦100,000 from the proceeds to pay your school fees, and use the remaining money to start a small business that could help keep you going.
Instead of taking the advice, you walked away saying, βHe is wicked. He doesnβt want to help you.β
But sometimes, help is not about giving you money. Sometimes, genuine help is giving you the uncomfortable advice you need to hear.
If you can afford an iPhone 15 Pro Max and human hair worth over β¦200,000, but cannot afford β¦100,000 for your tuition, then maybe the problem isn't that nobody wants to help you. Maybe your priorities need to change.
Not everyone who asks for help needs to be given money. Some people need financial assistance, while others need financial discipline.