having an emotionally mature partner in a relationship is so important. you’re able to express your feelings openly and freely. they don’t insult you, they don’t dismiss you, they don’t become hostile. they listen, they respond, they patiently hold space for you. top-tier connection.
MY TOXIC TRAIT is when I’m going through something, heavy family problems, experiencing a financial break through or whatever. I tend to stop talking to everyone & when I’m OK again, I start back communicating like nothing ever happened. It’s nothing personal,
“when i fw someone i instantly start going too hard... i be too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. i need to calm down and only be what someone is to me... that's my problem, i always love how i want to be loved hoping it gets reciprocated.”