i am whoever the fuck i decide to be. every influence, every experience, every version of me is mine to claim. i know exactly what shapes me, and i choose what stays. you don't get to define me, let alone control me. you could never.
my girls, whether you’re young or older, please DATE YOURSELF TOO. live your life, dress up, go out, try new things, make memories, have fun. love men if you want, but don’t make having one the center of your life.