hi losers been thinking ab doing this for a while but im gonna move over to @wdapteos, this acc just has So Much from things/ppl i dont support anymore & itd be borderline impossible to clear it all out so
when there is someone who is clearly not afraid to abuse and hurt you with their hands on you, it often feels safer to appear calm, because if we 'make a scene' and they obviously do not care about hurting us, god knows what theyll do
the day people realise victims of SA often dont act scared in the moment because we KNOW what could happen to us if we do that, not because we consented, is the day the world heals
everyone who told me i didnt care about victims and told me to kms when i said this a few weeks ago Apology please! we TOLD u he did it for gain and didnt actually care
and y'all praised him for standing up for shelby agaisnt wilbur. he never truly cared about taking the victims' side, he just used the situation to boost himself up socially. to seem like the good guy. all 3 of them are going to hell
Would you get a piercing in this place?
nose: i had it at 17 but it never healed so prob not again
septum: yes
eyebrow: maybe
cheek: no
smile: maybe
ear: already do
lip: MY FAV PIERCING OF MINE
nipple: i want to after top surgery
navel: no
tongue: maybe
this isnt coming from a casual healthy drinker either, i dealt w severe alcoholism october '22 to may '23. ive done a lot of embarrassing and reckless shit while drunk but not ONCE did i ever lose my morals - NO ONE WHO DOESNT WANT TO ABUSE SOMEONE SOBER WILL DO IT DRUNK
"he was drunk he didnt mean it" is not only what ive been told over and over by others, but also what i told myself and it ruined my fucking life and took my spark for SO long. i used it to stay in denial about an entire lifetime of abuse, sexual and otherwise
doing embarrassing but ultimately harmless shit, getting into deep conversation w strangers - NOT losing your basic moral compass of "dont harrass/assault anyone"
@HeartAttackMane hope ur having a lovely day!! we have no pics together but both times ive met u uve been so sweet, and being in my 20s and seeing u come so far despite Experiencing Your 20s is lovely and gives me some hope for my 30s LMAO
logging out bc this one hits INCREDIBLY close to home for me & is quite triggering honestly, but go watch caitis vod if u can & send love to her bc she deserves it ๐ซถ
fuck this dude and all his little mates SO fucking hard i am 100% serious, who in their right fucking mind is believing a word he says over a teenage girl who cried on stream bc of how fucking scared she was to tell her story WITHOUT EVEN NAMING YOU. rot in hell
ss bc i dont want him to gain monetarily by me qrting . but No one fucking cares bro caiti was 18, u were 26, she was DRUNK drunk and not saying no =/= consent being given, consent will only ever mean a sober and enthusiastic yes, nothing else