somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop. its very important that you see that journey through
Perhaps this year isn't about becoming anything at all. Maybe instead, it's about slowly unbecoming all the things which no longer align with you, and finding peace in the quiet return to your authentic self.
this is why its sooo important to never forget ur own identity even when ur in a relationship!! they’re supposed to add up smth to ur life, not diminish u
Not only is it safe but it’s necessary for you to realize this as you get older and step into who you’re meant to become. And you can only do that by giving yourself grace and acknowledging that not everyone is meant to stay in your life in the roles that they currently occupy
it is necessary to know where you need to improve, to not lie to yourself about your flaws and shortcomings. equally important is not to let that devolve into a self-hate or self-pity. in all things you need to be light enough on your feet that you can pivot to better ways
nothing humbles you more than realizing how many things you once prayed for are now a part of your normal life, and you barely even notice them anymore.
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
e quando o graham disse pra kendall que não queria namorar porque tinha foco em outras coisas e não tinha tempo, mas quando a wellsy disse que o plano do fakedating não daria certo porque eles não teriam tempo e ele disse “tudo bem, a gente dá um jeito”
the way in every off campus book the boys have something to say about garrett being so disgustingly in love with hannah, like this is the same man who didn’t want a relationship btw 😭🙏🏼