Therapy doesn’t absolve you of your previous behaviour but it provides context. You still need to be held accountable to yourself and those you’ve hurt. It’s not a clean slate, it’s a place to work from.
Lol I always find it funny when the worst fucking demons on earth say “I’ll go to therapy/l’ll work on myself” as if that is going to erase the trauma they caused.
Therapy isn’t magic, it doesn’t mean all is forgiven now & you’re cured of assholery, you’re still a shitty person.
I tweet for the ppl who have no Ramadan prep and will just turn up with a pack of eggs and avocado on day 1 and hope for the best. My home is a mess, I haven't done a grocery shop, I am unprepared on all the practical fronts but my heart is so so ready.
You'll never truly understand
Marriages
Divorces
Anxieties
Childbirth
Death of a loved one
Parenting
Until it actually happens to you,
Theories and assumptions of situations in life are not realities
You think you are smarter than most until life humbles you when it's your turn.