Being sexually assaulted being raped, literally changes the course of your life. It literally alters the course of your life, and some people never ever get back on track. I will never have empathy for a rapist. Please go to hell.
Suicidal people deserve a space to talk about their suicidal feelings without risking hospitalization/institutionalization or being accused of being manipulative or attention seeking
- refusing to ask for help
- downplaying your achievements
- isolating yourself instead of communicating
- saying “yes” to everything
- neglecting your own needs
- avoiding important responsibilities
- flooding your mind with negativity
- always chasing perfection
nb can ever make me feel bad for having feelings i’m human. idc if i was on a nigga phone crashing out, tryna rekindle a friendship, crying, ANYTHING! people try to make it seem like if you in your feelings bout something or someone you "weak" & that shit weird that to me!
i find it really fcked up when you have to ask men “what if she was your sister, daughter or mother” in order to make them see women as valuable human beings
i don’t think people realize how exhausting it is to constantly downplay what you feel just so you don’t come across as difficult. you start shrinking before anyone even asks.
people don’t understand how draining it can be to try to explain what's happening inside your head. no one knows when you’re struggling to understand it yourself, there are times when you just unintentionally feel sad and start to feel alone.
If I bring up an issue I have with you, that is not your time to bring up any grievances you have with me. You had time and opportunity just like me but you chose not to, now is your time to listen not deflect.
My idea of being spoiled has nothing to do with money.
It’s how you treat me.
How gentle you are with me.
How you speak to me.
How you show up for me.
How you pour into me.
Anybody can spend money…that takes little effort.
But being intentional, loving, supportive, AND protective?
That’s top tier