I just read this:
โRespect your wife. She is the woman who leave her whole family to live with you. She is the woman that Allah has made permissible for your eyes to see, your hands to touch, your arms to hold. She is the woman who carries your baby in her womb for nine months.โ
@nurunndhrh I got nothing much pun, dah kenapa nak jealous dengan kita pulak haih. Sampaikan orang lain pun perasan yg 'diorang' macam dingin dengan kita tapi duk peghati je kita pandang atas bawah nape tah. But the problem is that they're your own family too so macam mana nak block ๐ญ
I'm just wondering...
If there's someone keep on doing/buying the same things as you did (kinda copy almost everything you did) sampaikan other people also notice about it, what would you feel ya? Feeling happy, proud or annoyed huh bila orang asyik copy you? Anyone?
@nurunndhrh Yes, buat benda baik or attitude yg baik memang bagus la kalau nak copy. Tapi kalau apa yg kita buat & apa yg kita beli semua nak ikut sebijik sebijik tu macam tak patut la, can't you try to figure out something different than us instead of copycat other's kan ๐
Oh btw this question is not valid if you're influencers ke instapemes ke artis ke apa ye sebab kalau dah dalam golongan tu semua sah sah la orang lain semua suka nak ngikut/copy the same things you did, it's logic & understandable hehe
Hati-hati, kadang-kadang pesakit mental pun boleh cipta stigma sendiri.
Contohnya
"Saya depression je, bukan teruk macam pesakit-pesakit lain kat sini"
"Saya anxiety je, bukan schizo.."
"Saya mild je, bukan yang teruk macam orang lain tu, sampai nak bunuh-bunuh diri"
Ya Allah. Berikan rezeki Muhammad Syahmi Md Zan seluas langitMu, rezeki yang berkat, rezeki yang tak pernah putus seperti Air Zamzam, rezeki yang bawa kebaikan, rezeki yang membawa ke syurgaMu, rezeki yang tidak disangka-sangka. AMIN!
Pentingnya common sense & empathy
Sebelum cakap sesuatu, make sure kita cuba letakkan diri kita di tempat dia. You never know how your words can effect someoneโs life
Bulan 8 macam okay lagi, yg dari bulan 2 tahun lepas & sampai i dah selamat bersalin our first baby ni pun tak siap siap lagi wedding album. He said the reason late is because of the first pkp last year. But next month dah genap setahun ye ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
Nikah sekali majlis bulan 8 haritu. Tapi sampai sekarang gambar apa pon tak dapat. Jangan cakap album, softcopy pon takdak bayang. Call photographer tak berjawab. Dah nipis kesabaran ni.
The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.
Like seriously ayat dia sebijik macam the doctor yg i jumpa in one private clinic masa buat ultrasound scan before. Dah la suruh i stop my medication & just control it with my brain, siap suruh i tunjuk yg I'm OK everytime my psy appt so that they'll stop giving my medication ๐ช
Dalam video ini, doktor pakar mata ini menyuruh semua orang yang ada anxiety supaya โberhenti makan ubat dan jangan ikut cakap doktor.โ
Kemudian dia promosi positiviti toksik pula.
Kita semua kena tahu limitasi kepakaran kita.
Janganlah pukul rata & jadi โpakar semua bidang.โ
@syhirahman Scan baby berapa minit je pun tapi sampai sejam tau nadia kena duduk dalam bilik dia tu, kena hadap dengar dia bercakap sampai basah mask duk menangis tahan telinga ni eeeee Allah jela tahu apa nadia rasa masatu aten
when she relate it with my capability to be a mom, it really breaks my heart & make me down af. And that was the last time i went to her clinic, hope i takkan jumpa dia lagi dah. Cukup la semua ayat tu buat i menangis almost every night worried i can't be a good mom to my kids ๐ข
All her words really make me feel upset & thinking that I can't be a good mom then till I can't hold my tears masa tu. Kalau setakat suruh stop makan ubat, control emosi guna otak bukan ubat, banyakkan solat & doa etc tu i dah biasa dengar even from doctors or other people but...