When someone from a minority group does something wrong, using it as evidence that their race or religion is inferior, and that neither they nor anyone else from that group is deserving of status, while remaining silent when others make similar mistakes is 100% racism. I’m not sure how anyone can seriously frame that as some kind of quest for truth.
When I was dating around with fems I literally had no issues besides how clingy they were like no you cannot see me everyday boo... woulda thought that was a crime. Then they don’t let you have no hoes like 0
This is why bell hooks will always be goated. She had the courage to name the uncomfortable truths and her work forces us to separate the idea of a parent from the idea of a perfect or unquestionable figure. In her words, "We are taught that love is a feeling, but