dont tie the value of media that you were able to personally connect with to what people are rating on public database sites cus some of the best anime ive ever seen has a 6/10 on anilist/MAL and some of the worst anime ive ever seen has an 8/10 on anilist/MAL. it doesnt matter!!
this is why these kinds of communities are stupid. you guys have nothing in common other than Liking a certain character and being really sensitive over people who like the same character. no good can come out of that