Onalenna Modise

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[Onalenna Modise @NaleModise]

@Sparghetty "While the world is asleep, a real lover is brainstorming on ways to thrill his partner. You can’t teach thoughtfulness and romantic consideration" - Unclemidetush

[her🎀 @iam_dijah5]

I'm a very independent woman but I have no desire dating someone who watches me do everything on my own.

[Onalenna Modise @NaleModise]

🤣😂😅The TL is mad... episode 13 I started being mute, I was speechless!

[Reitumetse Makua (VKR)🇵🇸🇨🇩💜 @RMK_SA1]

I’ve never seen so much madness. Everyone on that show is insane - right down to the twins.

#ThePolygamist

[Lasizwe @lasizwe]

#ThePolygamist has me wondering… where do we draw the line as friends? Is it support when you watch your friend build a life around a married man, have his children (TWINS!!!!), and say nothing? Or is that enabling? Do we speak up, set boundaries, or stay silent because we’re scared of losing the friendship?

[Vuyo @Vuyo_Ntshinga]

I need Sue Nyathi to tell us what on God’s green earth she was thinking when she penned The Polygamist.

[Onalenna Modise @NaleModise]

😭😭😭Kea rata gore

[Gracias Being🌻 @GraciDynasty]

@Nokukhanyaaaaaa 😆😆😆

[Boity M🥂🍾 @boitymoreosele]

One day you’ll meet a man that enjoys to do stuff with you and take you everywhere. It’s very important that you keep that man♥️

[Ski @unkn0wnski]

i want my siblings to be successful

from my mouth to the ears of the fucking universe!

[Onalenna Modise @NaleModise]

🙏🏾🥵

[Amelia🤍 @NotJustLerato]

@JustineMupfumbu

[Amelia🤍 @NotJustLerato]

I just want the New balance 9060 in every colour 🤲🥹❤️.

[Thando Zulu @Thando_tz]

Say whatever you want , but I’m not planning a future neNdoda encishana imali Mina ✋🏿

[B N S L @_BNSL]

I got a call on a Sunday afternoon. It was a friend of mine who has been living with depression and suicidal ideation. In the call all he said was "Dude, I am not fine. I am losing it".

He didn't need to say more. I told him I am coming over and the first thing we are doing is checking in his firearm at the police station and then we can sit and talk. He lives about 1h30mins away and when I arrived he had already handled the firearm part. I won't say where he lives because that 1h30m will show that I was avoiding a funeral more than I was avoiding speeding tickets.

His wife was not around for the weekend so it was me, him and his kids. We left them watching TV and went to sit by a corner. We talked. About everything besides the call he made earlier.

Not because I wasn't curious but because after living with depression too I know that I don't always want a questionnaire. Or explain triggers that don't make sense. Or explain that sometimes I don't even understand why I feel that way I do. In fact, he was going through some of the best few months of his life when he made that call. New house, business going well... To the outside world he didn't "qualify" for depression.

The elephant in the room was there but we were laughing. I think the elephant was laughing too.

Months later he made a facebook post about that moment and we could joke about it now. Publicly. Not knowing that the simple act of sitting in that corner talking about shit was exactly why he called.

Too often when a low point in depression hits, we feel like we are talking to people we have to qualify our state to. People who mean well. But I don't know why I want my world to end. And even if I do, it is not always this great big thing that most people would think "Okay, it makes sense why you feel this way".

The other reason for this is that depression, like any illness, wants to live. It will do whatever it can to survive. Depression lies to you and tells you that you're a burden, that nobody actually cares and that reaching out will only make things worse. It's not avoidance. It's the illness doing exactly what it's designed to do. Live. Make you isolated.

And he actually is right about being a burden because he still hasn't reimbursed me for my petrol. Umuntu feeling suicidal nge mampara week knowing he lives in another province 😭 Ngiyayifuna imali yam ye Petrol na ma Tollgate 😭😭😭

[ktln. 🇿🇦 @kuttloanoo]

did your boyfriend send you money for maintenance or bophelo ke semphekgo?

[Mya ♡ @myaxlana]

its so much i wanna do with my life i think thats why i be stressing cause i want everything & more for myself

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

i am not ashamed to admit that while i am grateful for having a job, i do not enjoy working.

[Danielle @daniellejolana]

All I care about is being a good mom, making money and living my best life.

[idk luv, enjoy. @related_feels]

Marrying into a family where I’m genuinely loved is one of my top prayers.

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

I’ll swallow sand before I say “at least he comes home to me” 😭

[Fene @FeneAustin]

My own cup is empty. This is why I am currently unable to pour into others. If anyone cares about me, this is the time to pour into me. Even the strongest soldiers sometimes get vulnerable and need rest.

[Onalenna Modise @NaleModise]

@Givenkazeni @DukeMonyatsi 😭😭

[refilwe🫦 @mofo_refilwe]

Matla a rekiswa kae? 😭 because hakena ona hle.