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I filed for a custody modification that week.
My ex said I was turning one comment about sports into a crisis.
Her lawyer called it “normal discipline.”
At the hearing, the judge asked for the counselor’s notes and his teacher’s observations.
They showed the change in his behavior, the skipped group lunches, and what he’d said about meals at his mom’s house.
The judge asked my ex one question.
“Why was a nine-year-old eating alone in a garage?”
She didn’t have an answer.
The judge ordered a temporary change. My son would stay primarily with me while both households completed family counseling, and the school counselor would check in weekly.
The first night after the order, I made pasta.
He ate at the table.
Halfway through, his eyes got wet. He wiped them fast and said, “Sorry.”
I said, “You don’t have to be.”
He nodded, kept eating, and didn’t move his plate
My son came home from his mom’s house and asked if he could sleep on the floor in my room.
He’s nine.
I asked what happened.
He said his stepdad told him at dinner that boys who “act soft” don’t get to sit with the family. He’d started crying because his team lost.
Then his stepdad made him finish the meal alone in the garage so the younger kids wouldn’t “pick it up.”
He hadn’t told me sooner because he thought I’d be angry at his mom.
I called his school counselor the next morning and asked for a meeting.
I didn’t tell my son what I was worried about.
I just said the counselor wanted to check how school was going.
The counselor pulled his recent notes.
Three months earlier, he’d been described as outgoing and steady in class.
Lately he was quiet, flinching when other kids got loud, and asking to eat lunch in the classroom instead of the cafeteria.
The counselor asked if anything had changed at home.
My son looked at his hands.
Then he said, “Sometimes I eat in the garage.”
She asked why.
“So I don’t make the little ones soft.”
Nobody spoke for a second.
Then she asked how often that happened.
He started counting weekends on his fingers.
My son came home from his mom’s house and asked if he could sleep on the floor in my room.
He’s nine.
I asked what happened.
He said his stepdad told him at dinner that boys who “act soft” don’t get to sit with the family. He’d started crying because his team lost.
Then his stepdad made him finish the meal alone in the garage so the younger kids wouldn’t “pick it up.”
He hadn’t told me sooner because he thought I’d be angry at his mom.
I called his school counselor the next morning and asked for a meeting.
I didn’t tell my son what I was worried about.
I just said the counselor wanted to check how school was going.
@unkonfined One of my biggest dreams now, having a big account is a push to financial freedom
Sometimes I wonder if people really want to have a big account on 𝕏 🤔
Recovery from OCD isn’t “the thoughts stopped.” It’s “the thoughts showed up and I didn’t rearrange my whole day around them.” Still hard. Still progress.
What’s a boundary you set that people still try to cross?
Trust your anxiety is decent advice for a bad date. It is malpractice for OCD. The alarm is the symptom, not the evidence.
@Mbaisefinest Washing plates
Gues the correct purpose and win something
😂😂
@anyiam_daniel Exhausting is the right word. The mind won’t shut off, and the check never actually ends it. One day at a time, without the ritual.
Judge: “You refused to leave the house for fourteen months?”
Man: “Yes, Your Honor.”
Judge: “Even after the court ordered you out?”
Man: “Yes.”
Judge: “Why?”
Man: “Because my mother was still in that house.”
Judge: “Your sister said she wanted you gone.”
Man: “My mother couldn’t speak. The stroke took her voice in March.”
Judge: “You never mentioned that?”
Man: “I brought the records. Nobody read them.”
The judge looked at the sister.
Judge: “You said he was controlling her.”
Woman: “He wouldn’t let anyone in.”
Man: “I wouldn’t let her in. Every time she visited, something went missing.”
Judge: “Like what?”
Man: “Jewelry. Savings bonds. The deed.”
Judge: “This court was told your mother signed the house over to her.”
Man: “She signed something. She didn’t know what.”
Judge: “You have proof?”
Man: “I have the notary.”
I’ve been dealing with OCD and anxiety for a while now, and some days it feels exhausting. The constant checking, the intrusive thoughts, the way my mind won’t shut off even when I’m tired , it’s a lot. If you’re going through something similar, you’re not alone.
Notary: “She asked who she was signing for. I told her to stop. The daughter said she was just tired.”
Silence.
Judge: “Where is your mother now?”
Man: “Assisted living. I’ve been paying for it since April.”
Judge: “Your sister said you contributed nothing.”
Man: “She also said Mom asked me to leave.”
Judge: “Did she?”
Woman: “She nodded.”
Judge: “After the stroke. When she could no longer speak.”
The sister didn’t answer.
Judge: “Did she understand the deed?”
Still nothing.
Judge: “I’m voiding the transfer.”
Woman: “You can’t—”
Judge: “I can. And I am.”
He looked at the man.
Judge: “You disobeyed this court.”
Man: “Yes.”
Judge: “Because the person who filed the order was emptying the house around a woman who couldn’t call for help.”
Judge: “That order is vacated. The deed is void. And the district attorney will be looking at how that signature was obtained.”
The man closed his eyes.
Judge: “You refused to leave the house for fourteen months?”
Man: “Yes, Your Honor.”
Judge: “Even after the court ordered you out?”
Man: “Yes.”
Judge: “Why?”
Man: “Because my mother was still in that house.”
Judge: “Your sister said she wanted you gone.”
Man: “My mother couldn’t speak. The stroke took her voice in March.”
Judge: “You never mentioned that?”
Man: “I brought the records. Nobody read them.”
The judge looked at the sister.
Judge: “You said he was controlling her.”
Woman: “He wouldn’t let anyone in.”
Man: “I wouldn’t let her in. Every time she visited, something went missing.”
Judge: “Like what?”
Man: “Jewelry. Savings bonds. The deed.”
Judge: “This court was told your mother signed the house over to her.”
Man: “She signed something. She didn’t know what.”
Judge: “You have proof?”
Man: “I have the notary.”
A lot of Nigerians living abroad do not want a better society so that when they send money back home, it will look huge in their eyes.
Imagine giving someone in Nigeria £100 now and how much gratitude the person will give to you.
@ox_tobiiii You're doing well
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