Sometimes I disappear into my own little ghosting phase. I go quiet, stop answering messages, and pull back from everyone—not because I’m angry or trying to shut anyone out, but because sometimes I’m simply exhausted and need space to breathe. It’s never about not caring or pushing people away. Sometimes, when everything feels too heavy, going quiet is just how I cope.
Sometimes I think “living up to your potential” is just a prettier way of saying we are spending years mourning a person we are never actually going to become.
They jump into calling South Africans xenophobic, no one is willing to listen to our voices!
They wanna bully us into neglecting our own people in our villages while carrying parasites from all over Africa who contributes nothing!
South Africans if we don’t stop them now, our children will carry their great grandchildren for generations to come!
You do not realise how huge a favour you are doing me by not inviting me to your things. You think you are sending me a message, that time I wish I can hug you for not inviting me, thats how lazy I am to attend events. ❤️
I’m convinced when you rekindle a relationship with someone (friend, family, ex, etc), something will always resurface to show you why you should have left it burned and dried up.
I just found out water is a human right in Ireland and nobody pays water bills.
Every country should be like Ireland.
Water IS and always should be a human right
explain nothing. overshare nothing. force nothing. chase nothing. beg for nothing. prove nothing. expect nothing. let your silence be enough, and trust that what’s meant for you will find you.
you cannot make sense to a person who only comprehends things at their own level of perception. no matter how much you explain, argue, or try. save your energy.
Ekhaya mina ngikhuliswe kahle, if it happens you see me somewhere doing into ebhedayo, wazi ukuthi intando yami and my parents know nothing about it. Ngeke sicashele abazali siphinde sicashele nina.