1 day we’ll talk abt how avoidants get pursued even when they explicitly tell the pursuant that they are avoidant & not in the best position for a relationship
Somehow everyone has the same story of being strung along by an avoidant but no overbearing attachment on their end lol
Pattern recognition might be my least favorite neurodivergent ability. “Oh… I see exactly where this is heading. Surely everyone else sees it too, right?”
Oh.
They don’t.
Guess I’ll just sit here in silent horror and watch the disaster unfold exactly as predicted.
This avoidant, anxious thing feels like a psyop. None of these things are fixed personalities they are just patterns that could show up at different times under different conditions. We are all sorta gray.