@timiarchive Ngl to you brother, it’s meant to be hard. But just do what you know you should and it doesn’t have to stay hard for too long. Pray to God, work very hard, be honest, love well and take care of yourself man it’s really that simple.
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 I don’t have all the time in the world but it’s clear you’ve been very mislead and with those intentions of yours you should change your understanding of things, otherwise it might not look so good for you in the future
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Bro let me completely honest with you again. If you have these intentions like marrying one specific girl and build a family etc, then listening to the social media culture when it comes to dating is like digging your own grave. You can come dm if you wanna talk more
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Oh ok, so to me it seems like you had a very good chance but the more time went on she realized she lost interest because you probably made a lot of unnecessary mistakes. And tbh with you if she’s currently with another guy then that most likely means she didn’t like you enough
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Yeah exactly. Be confident, be secure in yourself. You don’t lack anything and you don’t need anything. But still be enthusiastic and alive, don’t walk around like nothing matters. When you want a second date you should put in a nice way that makes her even more interested
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Look bro, if she finds you very attractive and realize you’re personality ain’t bad either than she’s gonna like you within the first hour ngl
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Yeah something like that, if it aligns with your personality and is genuine then just be confident like that and take the lead. If you always ask shit you’re just gonna look insecure and desperate
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 You never need to ask her if she likes you because 99% of times you will know for sure if she does. When I woman truly likes you it will be obvious. If you just have a functioning brain you won’t have to ask her if she likes you, I don’t think girls like if you ask them that
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Bro ngl the more you’re speaking the more I realize you’ve been brainwashed by social media and these fake “alpha males” and people tryna act like they’re dating professionals. You also need to get rid of that insecurity, stop saying thank you for everything and
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 Yeah actually if you do these things that will just make you look more like a creep and a bitch tbh. Most girls who are good for you would probably just think you’re a big weirdo for doing all these pussy moves
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 You can’t build your understanding on dating from this app bro trust me. That’s the worst thing you can do, live real life, take advice from people who seem real and genuine and actually have a meaningful life
@BMcleaver@the_ceo99 That’s what they want you to believe bro, but real and true connection doesn’t look like that. I have never had to act something that I’m not to get girls, I’ve gotten a lot of interest just by simply not being desperate, being confident, taking care of myself etc