婚約しました。
嬉しい時も、辛い時も、たくさんの時間を共に過ごし、支え合いながら歩んできました。
いつしか、お互いにとってかけがえのない、なくてはならない存在となりました。
こうしてようやく皆様にご報告できることを、心から嬉しく思います。
これからも支え合いながら、変わらず私たちらしく、一歩ずつ歩んでいきたいと思います。
今後とも、温かく見守っていただけましたら嬉しいです。
三浦璃来 木原龍一
We’re engaged.
Through both the happy times and the difficult ones, we’ve shared so many moments together, supporting each other every step of the way.
Over time, we became irreplaceable parts of each other’s lives—someone neither of us could imagine life without.
We’re truly happy to finally be able to share this news with all of you.
As we begin this new chapter, we’ll continue to support each other and move forward together, one step at a time, while always staying true to who we are.
We hope you’ll continue to warmly support us and watch over us.
Riku & Ryuichi
#shesaidyes
Photo by Nobuaki Tanaka
Love Is Not a Competition
The internet loves a good “mom vs daughter for dad’s attention” video. The clips are funny, the captions are playful, and everyone laughs. Yet behind the jokes sits a quieter question: what actually makes a family feel safe and whole?
A happy home is not built on winning someone else’s time. It is built on the understanding that love does not shrink when it is shared. A father’s affection for his child does not take anything away from his partner. A mother’s closeness with her daughter does not threaten the marriage. When each person feels securely loved, the urge to compete fades.
Quality time is the practical foundation. Couples need moments that belong only to them — even twenty quiet minutes after the children are asleep. Children need one-on-one time with each parent, free from distraction. These separate connections actually strengthen the whole family. When every relationship is fed, no one feels starved.
Boundaries matter too. Children gradually learn that their parents are also a couple with a private life. At the same time, parents remember that a child’s need for closeness is real and temporary. Holding both truths at once creates balance instead of rivalry.
Humor helps. Light-hearted teasing about “who had him first” can be warm if it ends with reassurance. The message underneath should always be the same: there is enough love here for everyone. Open conversation turns potential jealousy into shared laughter.
Shared experiences bind a family more tightly than any individual claim. Cooking together, walking, watching something silly, or simply sitting in the same room without phones creates a sense of “us.” These ordinary moments become the stories children carry into adulthood.
Feeling heard is another quiet pillar. When a parent’s opinion is valued and a child’s feelings are acknowledged, trust grows. People who feel understood rarely need to fight for attention.
Finally, love has to be shown. A hand on a shoulder, a sincere thank-you, a spontaneous hug — small, consistent gestures keep the emotional temperature warm. Assumed love eventually cools. Expressed love stays alive.
The healthiest families are not free of playful competition. They simply know that no one has to lose. Parents who love each other deeply and love their children without reserve give everyone the same gift: the security of belonging. In that kind of home, no one needs to pull anyone off the couch. There is room for all of them.