sorry but we are not the "fake feminists" "selective activists" but completely the opposite bcs our feminism is not lacking when it comes to bts. It's YOU, who are on the opposite side. YOUR feminism is fake if it suddenly doesn't exist when it's your fav artists in the wrong.
mi rabia ya ni siquiera es con los cabros, es con USTEDES que quieren controlar el sentir y la forma de manifestarse de quienes están molestas, además de minimizar la situación. "devuelve el ticket" "deja de escucharlos"... quién chucha se creen que son para venir a dar órdenes
chicas muchas tienen que dejar de ver todo como blanco o negro podes amar a los chicos con todo tu corazón y aún asi decepcionarte con ciertas desiciones. ellos mismos nos han repetido que no son perfectos. reconocer que la cagaron en algo no es odiarlos, de hecho es humanizarlos
Cómo se nota que muchas acá no tendrían conversaciones incómodas con las personas que aman y que han cometido un error, sean coherentes con sus ideales chicas, ellos se tienen que incomodar y les tiene que dar vergüenza porque ES ASÍ DE SERIO
¿Sabéis por qué Chris Brown sigue subiéndose a un escenario? Porque tiene detrás a muchísima gente apoyándole, escuchando su música y yendo a sus conciertos.
Por eso es importante ser crítico con lo que hacen los artistas. Si agrede a mujeres, se le manda a la mierda.
al final del día, se consideran a todos los hombres "iguales" porque puede que no todos sean abusadores pero la mayoría CALLA, la mayoría IGNORA y no parecen tener consciencia sobre los temas de abuso. y si callas e ignoras, eres parte del problema
People seem to be missing the point here. I read Harry Potter. Own the books, own some merch, celebrate the art as a part of my culture and history…but I’m not going to tag JK Rowling in an appreciation post about the books. I’m not going to post a picture with them. That’s the difference here. Everyone one of us engages with art created by people who have done terrible things. To criticize someone for that would be hypocritical and self-righteous. But the choice to platform and celebrate the ARTIST while engaging with that art is deserving of criticism. And you can levy that criticism without cultivating hatred for the members or taking away from their core of decency and legacy of positive impact. My idols, two men I deeply love a respect, made an error in judgment today by publicly hyping a documented prolific abuser. That doesn’t make them bad people, it makes them human. And I’m engaging with their public update to express that disappointment and ask them to consider how this specific action may negatively affect their fans. That is also human. It’s totally reasonable and fair. It’s not hate, it’s not disillusionment about their perceived “perfection,” it’s simply a reciprocal interaction of two humans who happen to disagree about something important. Surely we’re all (including Namseok) old enough and mature enough to open that dialogue and reflect on our choices without escalating it into cancelling or defending without reproach. If my best friend tagged CB in a hype post, I’d text him expressing my disappointment in that choice, too. That’s not me trying to control him or condemning him as evil. It’s just me hoping he’ll take a minute to reflect on his action. No love or respect lost, just a conversation started.
So stop acting like talking about it and criticizing it is hateful and please stop expecting perfection from these normal grown men. Just be a normal human who can acknowledge mistakes while still loving and respecting the good people who make them.
@moonloveskoo@rida_siddi59801@selvyrrr Increíble la cantidad de gente cegada que te está respondiendo lol. Para lo que hay que leer hoy en día, mejor quedarse ciego
perdón por mi opinión un poco woke, pero me parece triste leer a algunas diciendo que si no hubiéramos hecho de esto un problema nadie estaría hablando de ello, porque de alguna manera la culpa siempre será de la mujer por no quedarse callada cierto
Interesting… You’re actually proving my point. You brought up my 55K followers because you understand that having a platform comes with influence, yet you expect men with millions of followers to be exempt from criticism over a public choice.
That is contradictory. I never said they weren’t allowed to attend. I said their choice deserves criticism, which I’m free to express just as they were free to go.
Parasocialism is also being thrown around far too loosely because people watched a few TikToks and now use the word to dismiss any criticism of a celebrity.
Having an opinion about a public figure’s public actions is not parasocial.
Feeling the need to protect grown men from reasonable criticism is far closer to it.
one last thing: Namjoon and Hope aren't going to see your tweets defending them, and Chris Brown won't see the excuses you made for him... but your mutuals who have gone through domestic violence or abusive relationships WILL.
Perdón por mi opinión tan woke, feminazi, terrorista, izquierdista y roja, pero no me parece bien que estén buscando callar a las mujeres por demostrar su inconformidad.
Toda opinión es válida si ayuda al crecimiento personal y si se hace desde el respeto y la consciencia.
feminism should never just be caged in the books you read, or in the songs you make. sure, go read the books and make the art, but most importantly, live it out in every single space you occupy. let’s all remind ourselves that please