you must believe you are special and then go so hard, for so long, with such violent refusal to accept any other ending, that reality itself starts running out of ways to tell you no. you must wage a war daily against the ordinary outcome, until the belief you invented out of nothing in a room by yourself has been hammered into the world so many times that it stops being a claim and becomes reality.
The most important part of the corporate structure is knowing how to leverage it
Using it to get paid to get a better degree, cert, or upskill courses
Taking your 401K match which is "free money"
Taking the health credits sometimes up to $500
Making the most of bonuses, etc.
I have close friends I strongly disagree with on many topics. I still respect & love them even when I think their POV is wrong, or silly.
If you can’t disagree with someone without falling out or calling them names, that’s not only a sign immaturity, it’s also a sign of low IQ.